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Mercury in aspect to Uranus   Leave a comment

Mercury conjunct Uranus signals a meeting of minds, this relationship is full of ideas, invention and spontaneity. You can be a pretty mad fun-loving couple and attract a wide social circle.  With this aspect there is a very wild imaginative eroticism that explores different means of sexual expression within the relationship.

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Mercury in dynamic aspect to Uranus, square or opposite, inspires both parties to open up to new perspectives and original ideas. You can be quite a wild and wacky couple and are often the life and soul of the party when together.  Both parties can challenge the other in the bedroom to go beyond there comfort zone and to experiment, as long as neither feel pressured this can be good and stop sex becoming stale.

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Mercury in harmonic aspect to Uranus, sextile or trine, is fun-loving aspect and one that ensures that you never get bored being in each others company.  Both will feel comfortable enough to be daring and bold in the bedroom without feeling pressured.

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Posted June 23, 2014 by neptune's Aura Astrology in Synastry

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Mercury in aspect to Neptune synastry   Leave a comment

Mercury the planet of imagination and thought meets Neptune the planet of illusion and intuition.

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Mercury in dynamic aspect to Neptune, conjunction, square or opposite, creates issues with communication.  Neptune person could come across as dishonest to the Mercury person but it is more likely that Neptune has been misunderstood and failed to correct any misconceptions that have arisen.  This aspect far from being fatal to a relationship requires honesty from both parties and a conscious effort to improve the clarity of communication between the two.  Neptune can stimulate the Mercury imagination and open up the mind to greater possiblities.

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Mercury in harmonious aspect to Neptune, sextile and trine, gives flights of fancy and daydreams shared even if they are never acted upon.  There is a tendency for both parties to be more forgiving of each others faults and there may be a sense of spoken language being unnecessary as both seem to know what the other is thinking.  There is a risk that the relationship will be more of a meeting of minds than physical but a good aspect to Mars or Venus will prevent this being the case.

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Mercury Quincunx or semi sextile Neptune may lead to a great deal of misunderstandings where the Neptune person can’t understand the Mercury person’s lack of intuition or faith in the possibilities of life and the Mecury person feels Neptune has their head in the clouds and is totally unrealistic.

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Mercury quintile or biquintile Neptune will add an imaginative touch to the relationship.

 

Moon in aspect to Sun in Synastry   Leave a comment

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Moon in aspect to the sun gives us an ability to understand each other on an emotional level.

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Moon conjunct sun, this dynamic aspect gives vital energy to both partners.  They intuitively understand and support each other, both reflecting qualities that the other admires. This aspect means you are able to support each other and feel a strong bond that keeps both parties together during the difficult times we all endure.

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Moon semi-sextile sun, you both have very different outlooks on life but are capable of seeing things from each others point of view.  When it comes to ideas on raising a family you both have different outlooks but are able to talk things over, family means completely different things to you both but blending the best of both world can provide a unique upbringing for any children.

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Moon sextile sun, you are generally in harmony with each other and go together like a horse and cart.  although you both have different outlooks these harmonise easily and you tune into each other well. Both will feel happy being with each other and supporting their partner in times of need.  With this aspect there is a balance of personalities that make both more rounded as a couple.

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Moon semi-square sun, you have the uncanny ability to set each other off, this relationship is a dynamic and passionate one.  With lots of disagreements you need to be careful where this trend leads but if you are both mature this relationship makes you re-exam your views and opinions about life, there is an intense attraction at play here and powerful energy dynamics.

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Moon quintile sun, this relationship seems to work well although it may not have the intensity of some relationships you know how to work together as a team and to balance each others weaknesses and strengths.  This relationship is warm and practical and has the stability necessary for a long-term commitment.

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Moon square sun, you may argue black is white with each other but there is something that draws and attracts you to one another like moths to a flame.  This relationship is fiery and passionate but both parties are equally intense and although there may be many disputes neither party is a victim of the other both are intensely fierce when it comes to defending one another against the outside world.

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Moon trine Sun, you two are cut from the same cloth and may believe each other to be the best thing since sliced bread however there can be a lack of dynamism in this relationship because you tend to agree on most things, you just need the odd occasional dispute to add some passion and you have everything.

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Moon biquintile Sun you may be chalk and cheese but somehow it works your differences seem to harmonise with each other both having qualities the other seems to lack together you make a good team much to the amazement of family and friends.

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Moon quincunx sun, you have no idea about what goes on in your partners head and that gives this relationship an air of sexy mystery you will never understand each other.  There is something sexy about your partner that you just cannot fathom out but it intrigues you.

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Moon opposite Sun, you too have an instant attraction you both feel intensely about your relationship although you tend to drive each other mad you wouldn’t swap your partner for all the tea in china.  There are plenty of arguments but a great deal of harmony between you both too, you balance each other out and are equal partners in this relationship.

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Posted June 23, 2014 by neptune's Aura Astrology in Planets in aspect to moon

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Moon in aspect to Moon   Leave a comment

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Aspects between the moon of each couple, show how they connect emotionally.

Moon conjunct moon, you are intuitively connected and can finish off each other’s sentences.  You both feel the same way about things which means you often lack a difference of perspective which can make you both narrow in your outlook.  However you have an overwhelming sense of family and belonging with each other and can be quite happy in your own little bubble just the two of you.  Only trouble is you both tend to feel down simultaneously which makes it hard for you to pick each other up.

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Moon semi-sextile moon, you understand each other’s outlook on life but know you are both individuals with your own individual perspectives and as such you respect each others emotional strengths and differences.  When one of you is down the other can usually help them cope and what affects one of you doesn’t seem to affect the other, this is good at helping to create stability and interdependency.

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Moon sextile moon, you get where each other is coming from emotionally and can easily relate on an emotional level towards each other. although you are different you have an emotional harmony and natural empathy for what the other is feeling and are sympathetic when the other is feeling low.  This is a sure sign of compatibility within a relationship.

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Moon semi-square moon, you are both intense in your emotional feeling for each other, there may be many passionate arguments with this dynamic but there is also an intense emotional connection to one another.  This relationship is fiery, passionate and consuming for both parties.

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Moon quintile moon, you have differences in emotional responses but they can easily be harmonised creating a good support structure for each other both parties can be good listeners and sounding boards for the other and help them move forward with emotional issues.

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Moon square moon, you are obsessive and intense when it comes to your relationship with each other, both of you are irresistibly drawn to each other and sparks inevitably fly because feelings between you are so intense, this can lead to stormy arguments and intense moments but neither of you seem to be able to resist the others pull for too long.

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Moon trine moon, you both seem to finish each others sentences and know exactly how each other is going to respond.  Although you are both different your outlooks are remarkable similar and you have a natural and intuitive connection to each other on an emotional level that gives both the security and independence needed to be truly themselves.

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Moon biquintile Moon you may be different but you both can relate to how each other is feeling and offer each other love and support when times are hard and one of you is struggling.  You have both got the ability to ground each other in times of stress making your relationship work through issues and hard-times.

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Moon quincunx moon, who is that mysterious figure half-lit and shimmering in the distance, you find it hard to instinctively relate emotionally with each other but that mystery just adds to the allure of this relationship because your partner is an enigma an unsolvable puzzle that can drive you insane at times.

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Moon opposite Moon, there may be plenty of thunder and lightning because this relationship has an electrified air to it.  You understand your emotional differences well and they balance out but the spark in this relationship will never dull down but always reignite the flames of emotional passions, this is an intense affair of the heart for both involved.

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Moon in aspect to Venus in synastry   2 comments

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Moon in aspect to Venus in synastry shows how we express our love for each other.

Moon conjunct, trine or sextile Venus,

“The first time ever I saw your face
I thought the sun rose in your eyes
And the moon and the stars were the gifts you gave
To the dark and the endless skies, my love”.

All of these aspects indicate a tendency to see each other through rosy-tinted spectacles, you definitely see the best in your partner and there is sweet music playing when you are with each other, these aspects denote pure and long-lasting affection for each other.  This aspect is one of the best to have in a relationship whether romantic or friends there is a deep unconditional love.

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Moon in dynamic aspect to Venus – square, semi-square & opposite,

Sexy, everything about you so sexy
You don’t even know what you got
You really hit my spot
Oh yeah, yeah
And you’re so innocent
Please don’t take this wrong cos it’s a compliment

There is something irresistibly sexy about your partner they have some sort of magnetic pull that makes you go weak at the knees whenever you see them this response is not likely to dim with time either.  This is an intense emotional relationship for both and feeling between both run deep.

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Venus quintile or biquintile moon,

When the little blue clerk
In the middle of his work
Starts a tune to the moon up above
It is nature that is all
Simply telling us to fall in love

And that’s why birds do it, bees do it
Even educated fleas do it
Let’s do it, let’s fall in love

There is something sweet about these aspects, has the feel of old-fashioned romantic chivalry out of the pages of a historical romance.  There is a gentleness and refinement that is exquisite and endearing between you both.

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Moon quincunx Venus,

She’s Venus in Blue Jeans
Mona Lisa with a pony tail
She’s a walkin’ talkin’ work of art
She’s the girl who stole my heart

My Venus in Blue Jeans
Is the Cinderella I adore
She’s my very special angel too
A fairy tale come true

the mysterious God or Goddess, from some dream elusive and unpredictable she/ he seems to glide into your life causing an inner turmoil you just can’t quite understand.  This person’s aura of mystery enthralls you and keeps you waiting for more, you may not understand why they have this effect on you but you like it.

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Moon in aspect to Mars in synastry   Leave a comment

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Moon conjunct Mars, you have a tendency to light each others fires, there is plenty of sparks flying between you both, and passions tend to spiral between you.  With this aspect both need to remember that the moon can only handle so many arguments and as fiery as this relationship is you need to ensure that the fights do not begin to replace the passionate emotional expression of desire.

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Moon sextile or trine Mars, you are in tune with each other physically and there is a harmony between emotional and physical expression in your relationship.  Both of you feel a strong connection to each other and can be very protective of each other.  This also creates strong physical attraction between both people and is just as powerful as a Venus / Mars aspect.

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Moon square or opposite Mars,  you two ignite in each others presence, this is a very passionate relationship however these dynamic aspects can change to anger and rage in certain circumstances.  Both parties need to be aware of this and mature enough to spot these tendencies so they can be nipped in the bud.

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Moon quintile or biquintile Mars there is a chemistry here that is subtle yet beautiful, it may not be flames of desire but it is definitely a romantic sunset sky on some tropical beach.  There is a harmony in your natures that blends and transforms both of you.

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Moon quincunx Mars, you have a habit of igniting each others flames without realising what you are doing, this relationship is very instinctual in nature – the less you think about it and the more you both respond intuitively to one another the easier the flow of the relationship becomes.

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Moon in aspect to Jupiter in synastry   Leave a comment

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Moon conjunct, opposite and square Jupiter,

this aspect activates the positive sunny side of the moon person, who feels extra special in the presence of the jupiter person.  This energy has an uplifting effect but both parties must ensure they don’t allow it to turn them into a couple who behave self-righteously because that would be a waste of opportunity to explore and open up each others worldview and enrich both parties experience of life.  Some with this aspect may come from different cultures and backgrounds and will work to blend these differing cultures into their relationship.  both parties may feel the desire to have a family together, with this aspect.

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Jupiter sextile or trine Moon,

this aspect generally shows that the two of you have good feelings for each other and enjoy each other’s company. This relationship is likely to be spiritually and morally uplifting as long as both parties keep their feet on the ground and do not over-estimate their own morality. The world looks better when you are together and this aspect will actually help you both to cope with any stormy weather in your relationship as you will both be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel. In a marriage, this aspect instills a desire for children and makes it more likely that you will have them.

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Moon quintile or biquintile Jupiter,

you see the best in each other and feel more capable of facing the world together.  Both of you may feel the urge to settle down and start a family with this aspect.

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Moon quincunx Jupiter,

this aspect denotes that you both feel good together although neither of you understands why you know the other is intuitively capable of raising a smile on your face when the chips are down.

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Moon in aspect to saturn in Synastry   Leave a comment

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Moon conjunct, opposite or square Saturn, this relationship can feel heavy and restrictive at times as both feel an intense duty and responsibility for each other.  There is often a fated feeling with relationships that have this dynamic, however the moon person may feel too restricted emotionally and begin to resent the Saturn person, it is important for both to understand the energy involved so the Saturn person can ease off and the moon person realizes that the more they can express love the more relaxed the Saturn person will become part of this restrictive energy is caused by Saturn’s insecurity.

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Saturn sextile and trine Moon, this relationship is very likely to be long-term and offers both a sense of security and belonging.  There is a responsible and practical dynamic at play which enables both parties to weather any storms as a couple.  Both take this relationship seriously and are committed.  Saturn supports the moon person and helps them put their emotions into perspective and is usually their shoulder to cry on this aspect works better when Saturn is male but works very well for females too.

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Saturn quintile and biquintile Moon, there is a solid foundation in this relationship which enables both parties to work together as a team and build a strong bond together.

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Saturn quincunx moon, difficulty understanding the practicalities involved in a long term relationship together.  This aspect requires intuitive understanding of the needs for stability and open expression within the relationship.

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Sun in aspect to Sun Synastry   Leave a comment

Sun conjunct Sun works best for the sign of gemini who are attracted to their twin.  For others there is something too close to themselves for this aspect to go beyond friendship.  Both understand each other very well but they have the same up and down cycle which means it is harder to support each other during the low periods.

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Sun sextile or trine Sun makes life easy for both parties to get along and understand where the other is coming from. They are naturally great friends as well within the relationship.  This aspect even if the orb is large has a great dynamic for friendship within the relationship.

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Sun opposite or square Sun makes the relationship more passionate and dynamic.  This aspect adds some fire and passion to the relationship and works well with fixed signs in particular who are attracted to their opposite and square sun signs.

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Sun quincunx Sun can add an air of mystery to the relationship which makes their partner appear very sexy if baffling at times.

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Sun quintile or biquintile can add an easy-going hamony to the relationship where they are able to see where the other is coming from whilst being vastly different in nature.

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Sun in aspect to Moon in Synastry   Leave a comment

Sun Moon tree

Moon in aspect to the sun gives us an ability to understand each other on an emotional level.

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Moon conjunct sun, this dynamic aspect gives vital energy to both partners.  They intuitively understand and support each other, both reflecting qualities that the other admires.

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Moon semi-sextile sun, you both have very different outlooks on life but are capable of seeing things from each others point of view.  When it comes to ideas on raising a family you both have different outlooks but are able to talk things over, family means completely different things to you both but blending the best of both world can provide a unique upbringing for any children.

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Moon sextile sun, you are generally in harmony with each other and go together like a horse and cart.  although you both have different outlooks these harmonise easily and you tune into each other well.

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Moon semi-square sun, you have the uncanny ability to set each other off, this relationship is a dynamic and passionate one.  With lots of disagreements you need to be careful where this trend leads but if you are both mature this relationship makes you re-exam your views and opinions about life, there is an intense attraction at play here and powerful energy dynamics.

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Moon quintile sun, this relationship seems to work well although it may not have the intensity of some relationships you know how to work together as a team and to balance each others weaknesses and strengths.  This relationship is warm and practical and has the stability necessary for a long-term commitment.

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Moon square sun, you may argue black is white with each other but there is something that draws and attracts you to one another like moths to a flame.  This relationship is fiery and passionate but both parties are equally intense and although there may be many disputes neither party is a victim of the other both are intensely fierce when it comes to defending one another against the outside world.

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Moon trine Sun, you two are cut from the same cloth and may believe each other to be the best thing since sliced bread however there can be a lack of dynamism in this relationship because you tend to agree on most things, you just need the odd occasional dispute to add some passion and you have everything.

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Moon biquintile Sun you may be chalk and cheese but somehow it works your differences seem to harmonise with each other both having qualities the other seems to lack together you make a good team much to the amazement of family and friends.

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Moon quincunx sun, you have no idea about what goes on in your partners head and that gives this relationship an air of sexy mystery you will never understand each other.  There is something sexy about your partner that you just cannot fathom out but it intrigues you.

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Moon opposite Sun, you too have an instant attraction you both feel intensely about your relationship although you tend to drive each other mad you wouldn’t swap your partner for all the tea in china.  There are plenty of arguments but a great deal of harmony between you both too, you balance each other out and are equal partners in this relationship.

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Posted June 23, 2014 by neptune's Aura Astrology in Planets in aspect to Sun, Synastry

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Sun in aspect to Mercury synastry   Leave a comment

Sun conjunct Mercury you both have very similar ways of seeing the world around you and expressing your ideas and opinions this makes communication quite easy between you both.

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Sun semi-sextile Mercury although you both have different ways of looking at thing you understand where each other is coming from and can communicate effectively if not naturally with each other.

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Sun semi square Mercury you have very dynamic communication with each other and either this leads to arguments or both are stimulated to open their mind to different possibilities and learning experiences.

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Sun sextile Mercury you are naturally in tune in your thinking and capable of bouncing ideas off each other and expanding the thought process through each others knowledge.

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Sun quintile Mercury this aspect is ideal for expanding your creative ideas together to come up with new ways of dealing with problems and issues.  Your differences make you both capable of seeing many more angles to a situation than you can on your own.

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Sun Square Mercury you have very dynamic differences of opinion and you both tend to come at things from completely different angles either this drives both to see things from new perspectives and helps both to widen their viewpoints or it may lead to fierce arguments.

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Sun Trine Mercury this is a relationship in which there is a harmony of attitude and communication styles you tend to agree with each other most of the time on the important issues, however this can stop both from expanding their thought processes unless both actively seek to do this as individuals.

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Sun biquintile Mercury, lots of differences in outlook help make this a very creative aspect that denotes originality as a couple in expression of ideas and communication.

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Sun quincunx Mercury you may find it hard to understand where each other is coming from at times but as a team this enables you to work through problems as what one struggles to understand the other usually grasps intuitively.

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Sun opposite Mercury you are attracted to the differences in how you both view the world and between you you manage to open each others minds to all sorts of possibilities.

Posted June 22, 2014 by neptune's Aura Astrology in Synastry

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Sun in aspect to Venus Synastry   Leave a comment

Hi-ho silver lining,
Anywhere you go now baby,
I see your sun is shining,
But I wont make a fuss,
Though its obvious.

Sun aspect Venus is always a nice feeling for those involved whether they are friends, family or lovers.

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Sun conjunct Venus you just feel wonderful in each others company there is a connection between you both that gives the Venus person validation and energy and the sun a wonderful feeling of unconditional love.  This aspect makes both feel complete in each others company.

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Sun Semisextile Venus you just seem to know where each other is at and how they are going to see things both of you can help the other because of this ability because whatever one is struggling with the other can usually cope with and this relationship is truly mutual in sharing and leaning on each other in times of need.

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Sun semisquare Venus wow there is something dynamic about the way you make each other feel.  Unconditional love plus the nudge to be the best you can be drives this relationship.

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Sun Sextile Venus easy like Sunday mornings, there is an ability to relax and just be in this relationship and it feels wonderful for you both.  You feel unconditional love for the other whether you are the sun or the Venus.  This aspect signifies deep love whether in friendship or a relationship.

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Sun quintile Venus you just seem to go together even though you are completely different in your outlooks you both can understand and appreciate the others point of view and that adds to the relationship.

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Sun square Venus sweet romance with an edge you both feel better around the other person and this drives you to live up to their expectations on some level and makes you both better people.  However the Sun person can upset the feelings of Venus at times unintentionally and Venus may occasionally behave jealously.

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Sun Trine Venus harmony and love emanate when you are together there is nothing more beautiful to both of you than the other person.  There is deep warmth shared between you both.  This is a love that can last a lifetime if treated with the care and respect it deserves.

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Sun sesquiquadrate Venus there is sparks in the air when you are together you both appreciate the qualities in each other and challenge one another to move on and to grow as a couple.

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Sun Biquintile Venus there is a nice rapport between you both as you appreciate each other as individuals who complement each other and make a wonderful team.

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Sun quincunx Venus you feel good in each others company but you find it difficult to understand the others point of view often, sometimes relationships don’t need to be questioned or understood if it isn’t broken don’t fix it, this aspect works whether you or your other half understands it or not.

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Sun Opposite Venus passion and love that is long-lasting you both feel like you have found your other half of the equation and make each other feel complete.  This is an intensely passionate relationship for both and jealousy may become an issue at times.

 

Sun in Aspect to Mars synastry   Leave a comment

Sun Conjunct Mars in synastry can be competitive at times but there is a strong underlying attraction and ability to relate to each other.  With this aspect you are compatible physically in your energy levels and ways of expressing your sexual drives.  With this aspect it is easier if the Sun is male in which case they may be seen as an ideal partner.

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Sun semi-sextile Mars you are both completely different individuals but you see where each other is coming from and can meet each other half way on most things.  Your sex drives and sexual expression might be different but you can both live with the differences as they are usually positive.

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Sun semi square Mars you may spark passions in each other but this energy when not sexual has dangers especially to the sun’s ego depending on the individual this relationship will either work well and be very dynamic driving force of your relationship or it will trigger insecurities.

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Sun sextile Mars this is a comfortable aspect for both and you are well complimented in each other both have similar energy levels and sexual expression and both will feel energized by the relationship. If the Sun is male they may be fulfilling an ideal image of the perfect partner, if the Mars is Male they may sense a partner who can respond completely to their sexual needs.

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Sun quintile Mars your energies may be different but they are harmonious and you both sense the needs of the other and are capable of responding to those needs intuitively.

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Sun square Mars this aspect is dynamic and may be very passionate even though you see things from completely different perspectives you both compliment aspects of each other just as long as both remain sensitive to the emotional differences in expression this relationship has a fire that will not die out easily.  make sure to act out your competitive streak in the bedroom to avoid too many arguments.

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Sun trine Mars you are both completely relaxed and in tune with each other and automatically respond to each others needs whether they be physical or emotional.  This aspect is very relaxed and denotes affection as well as passion in the relationship.  Both partners are comfortable expressing their sexual needs with each other and this relaxed attitude leads to greater fulfilment.

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Sun bi-quintile Mars this relationship is a harmonious blend of individuals with different strokes who seem to somehow still manage to swim in harmony and to meet each other half way both physically and emotionally.

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Sun quincunx Mars the sun person will need to be intuitive in response to the Mars persons sexual needs and more aware of signals given out whilst the Mars person needs to be more aware of the ego needs of the sun and pick up the signals when they are in need of reassurance.

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Sun opposite Mars this may be passionate but both will feel the urge to challenge each other depending on the natal chart this may be exactly what both individuals need.  They may both be wild at times and like the odd quarrel followed by the passion of making up.