Uranus in Partner’s 4th house   Leave a comment

Uranus here in the 4th house brings issues of what is family and what we call home to the fore within the relationship.  We all have unique family and home setting of which we are accustomed to and take for granted it is only in our relationships with others that we experience different family setting and various homes.

Uranus in Leo in 4th house

here the relationship is one in which our sense of worth developed through our family relationships and home life as a child come into focus.  Within the relationship our identity as part of a family and how we view ourselves both positively and negatively comes under the spotlight.  Families have different orientations they may value reading and discussion or out door activity and sports more but all families have different orientations.  As individuals we assess our selves in comparison to siblings and other family members and if we have attributes that are different we struggle to value them equally at times.

Uranus in Virgo in 4th house

here the relationship is one in which issues of how we care for each other within families and nurture each other impacts on how we value and nurture others within our relationships. As individuals with our own family background we may have experienced different levels of showing affection, teasing and closeness within our families.  Each of us comes to the relationship with these experiences as our norms which may mean issues can arise when one is less tactile than the other – one may feel rejected while the other may feel overwhelmed and need more space.

Uranus in Libra in 4th house

here the relationship is one in which how we learn to relate t each other through our families comes to the fore, different families communicate in different styles depending on culture and background they may be very passionate and animated when speaking, relaxed and comfortable discussing any issue or they count be unemotional and reserved in communication.  We tend to accept our family as the norm and learn to communicate in the way that we have been raised and find it harder to relate to those with different communication styles.

Uranus in Scorpio in 4th house

here the relationship is one in which how our family has raised us to deal with loss, fear of loss, sickness and fragility of life come to the fore within the relationship and there may be different styles of dealing with these subjects one may have been raised in a family where certain subjects were taboo whilst another is quite comfortable speaking openly about such topics.  The level of comfort at which we deal with sex and death especially may be one in which the relationship teaches us to be more open and frank with each other than we have been accustomed to.

Uranus in Sagittarius in 4th house

here the relationship is one in which we deal with being raised with different values and beliefs within the relationship and how these ideas about who we are and how we should behave towards others is focused on.  There is likely to be different ethical perspectives within the relationship and this offers both partners the chance to broaden their horizons if they accept the differences and try to see things from the other’s perspective as well.  In doing this it widens their frame work for making joint decisions that encompass far more than they are capable of as individuals.

Uranus in Capricorn in 4th house

here the relationship is one in which the issues of how we view reality is coloured by family attitudes to money, security and the home itself as well as roles adopted within the family such as provider or nurturer.  Each family has a unique structure and we tend to conform to the structures we understand when we come from a ‘traditional’ family background we tend to be comfortable with that structure because we know the roles and what is expected of us however families vary wildly and in many families those roles are not clear cut or completely different depending on circumstance.

Uranus in Aquarius in 4th house

here the relationship is one in which family backgrounds are likely to be completely different from a social perspective one may be rural family life the other urban family life or the financial aspects of the families may have been completely different.  There is also possibility that one family may have completely different educational standard from the other or different social class that causes both partners to see things from different perspectives but may cause clashes at times due to differing values, especially financial and social ones.

Uranus in Pisces in 4th house

here the relationship is one in which our unconscious beliefs about family and our ideals regarding them come into focus.  There is likely t be issues around family upbringing which makes the relationship more complex when it comes to having reasonable expectations about what normal families feel like.  One or both partners may have had a lot f issues within their family growing up and this may lead them to yearn fr the perfect family of their own.  However families do not come in perfect and all have faults and flaws and this may take a while for those in relationship to adjust to.


Posted September 10, 2015 by neptune's Aura Astrology in Uranus in Partner's house

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