Neptune in Partner’s 4th House   Leave a comment

Neptune in partner’s 4th house is all about how we deal with each other’s family within a relationship, there may be issues about feeling accepted within the family if it is tight-knit or there may be a tendency for one partner to  dislike the other’s family.  There may also be issues revolving around childhood that arise in the relationship which perhaps have not been resolved.  With this aspect it is important to understand that your partner’s family are important and to reject them is equivalent of rejecting an essential aspect of who they are.  Accepting your partner means accepting their family no matter how different they are from your own.  We all have different ways of doing things and different does not mean wrong and it is good to experience these differences with an open mind.

Neptune in Libra in 4th house

Here there may be a great desire to be accepted by a partner’s family and this may mean that they are willing to compromise unnecessarily in order to fit in.  It is important that just as it is necessary to accept a family the way they are, a family must accept any individual the way they are too and there is no need to compromise who you are to fit in.  The more we compromise on who we are the more likely we will be expected to compromise further and it is important to understand that we cannot change who we are in order to make anybody like us as the more we try the less likely it is to happen.

Neptune in Scorpio in 4th house

Here there may be intense incidents from childhood that may be brought up within the relationship as it develops and partners feel able to open up more about past issues and traumas.  It may be that within this relationship they disclose events that have never been shared with anybody before and which they are very sensitive about so complete discretion is required if this is the case.  It is likely that family relationships are very intense issues that may be easier to deal with as an outsider coming in and this may help to defuse certain situations and it may be that the partner feels caught in the middle of a family war at times.

Neptune in Sagittarius in 4th house

Here both partners may come from families that have strong traditions, whether that is going to football matches as a family or hiking together these families are very likely to be tight-knit in a way that is hard for outsiders to always fit in as there may be so many traditions that are taken for granted that they are not even thought about.  This makes it awkward for others who may find themselves breaking traditions without even realising as long as this is treated in a light-hearted way by everybody it is fine as the longer the relationship continues the easier it is to discover and understand the complex customs and traditions.

Neptune in Capricorn in 4th house

Here there may be issues of fitting with each others family as both may be quite set in their ways and used to doing things the way they have always been done and that may make each partner feel somewhat excluded from fully participating in them it is likely that parents still want to keep the same roles as always and this may be even more true of mothers who may resent any challenge to their authority.  With this aspect there is issues of being in control and of family relinquishing their primary importance to the partner.

Neptune in Aquarius in 4th house

Here there may be a tendency for either partner to dislike trying to fit in with each other’s family and both may refuse to take part in the family activities that have traditional value.  There may be a belief that as a couple it is up to both to set their own traditions and that there is no place for past family traditions associated with being single and not part of the couple.  Whilst it may be important to create your own traditions it is impossible to ignore each family’s input and it is necessary to concede some ground to them over certain important dates.

Neptune in Pisces in 4th house

There are likely to be many issues around family and childhood that need resolved within the relationship, there may be issues in relation to alcohol or drug dependency in the family background or other such skeletons that are likely to come out as the relationship progresses.  It is important to understand that we all have family skeletons that we do not talk about in public and that we all have areas of dysfunction within our families and this is part of life.  These issues need to be dealt with sensitively and discreetly and both partners must feel comfortable enough to open up about family secrets.

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Posted November 17, 2014 by neptune's Aura Astrology in Neptune in Partners House

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